The language you use to describe your experience creates your experience. Be sure to choose words to describe your life now, based on the life you want to live.
Have you ever wanted someone else to make a change in their lives? Wanted them to be better or do better? Yeah me too, but telling them how to change, is not the best course of action. We must learn to lead by example and give them permission through our actions not our words.
One of the biggest forms of Fear of Failure for me to overcome was the need for permission.